Our first date was April 21, 1981, 30 years ago today. I was a sophomore in high school, not even able to drive. Bob had just turned 17 and was a junior in high school. Bob invited me to the REO Speedwagon Concert at the University of Dayton Arena in Dayton, Ohio. 707 was the warm up band. I wasn't a huge REO fan, but they were pretty popular in 1981 and I was excited to go to a concert, my first.